Everyone has different levels of need and desire for their sexual passions to be filled, and for different reasons in people's lives their needs don't get filled. Some people are single, some are parents with no or very little time, some have a medical or health condition, and some are couples but the desire or commitment to pleasure has diminished or is completely gone.
What are the best things you can do to feel your own sexual energy when you are alone? Some people like to exercise as exercise increases your physical energy, raises endorphins, opens up pheromone secretions, helps circulate the energy throughout your body and reduces stress. All of these things help you to feel your own sexual energy and your own power.
Creative expressions and art is another expression. Creative energy and artistic expression is built from your 2nd chakra; as this is your pleasure zone of the body. When you release creative passions and artistic expression, you are using your own sexual energy, raising it and releasing it through a loving and healthy form. It helps one to feel their own sexual energy, channel it with beauty and coming to the height of it; a climax and orgasm when a project is complete and satisfies you. Many people who have a lot of energy are also very creative at heart.
Some people like to connect to the elements of the earth and nature to feel an energetic rise or release. Standing on the Earth, on the grass and dirt, sitting or lying on the ground cleanses ones spirit and sometimes if you're sensitive, can bring a rush of sensual pleasure. Being amongst plants or trees can be utterly refreshing and many like to live in the suburbs or country for this reason alone. Building a fire and standing or sitting amongst its flames, feeling the energy of the heat can fill ones soul with relief and satisfaction. There are many tribes of the past and communities in the present created to suit this purpose alone.
However, the most fulfilling of sexual energy comes from an exchange with another person. What are some Ways of Exchanging Sexual Energy?
Well, in Tantra, the breath is key! When you breathe with intention, you're creating the energy of life! It only makes sense that this is the time you can sometimes create a true life during this process when the energy is aligned, the love connection is strong enough and the souls link up, that a new life is created. When you breathe with the intention of giving, you help lift the spirits, nourish, relax, or increase the energy of another. When you breathe with the intention of receiving, you feel filled with life, joy, peace and pleasure. However, be wary of your giver knowing or agreeing for the exchange to happen; otherwise they might leave feeling exhausted, drained, and perhaps used or confused.
Eye gazing, holding hands, the yab yum, cuddling, energy scanning each other, massaging each other, pleasuring each other, and of course making love are all excellent ways of feeling fulfilled from the sexual energy you crave and deserve.
How do you ask for someone you love or care about to give you the intimacy and sexual energy you desire when they feel easily intimidated, overwhelmed, bashful, stressed, or are distracted with life?
You can start with making it about you, and not about them. Share with them how it makes you feel when you connect to them; rather than asking or telling them what you want. When you share with them what it means to you to connect to them, they see your authentic self and your heart, and when you make demands or requests all they see are demands, and this can often turn people off; unless they're the submissive type. However, most people like to know that they're in control of the decisions they make, and when they're not given the choice, their initial first response is to first negate or reject, but when offered as a request or suggestion, they have the chance to consider it and to give their own answer. And, usually their answer is Yes!
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